if you know someone who has cancer, or any other illness/condition, and you offer to help - please follow through. I can't speak for anyone else, but I've heard the same from others (and we experienced when we had triplets). It's really hard for me to ask for help. It's really hard for me to accept help. If I've told you something you can do to help, and you said you would, I almost 150% surely will NOT remind you. So I'll wonder, and eventually maybe do it myself, and that's exactly when you will say "huh, I told you I would do that".
Damned if I do; damned if I don't.
If you don't really intend to help, just don't offer. It's as simple as that. No harm, no foul.
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