So while I still wish we hadn't had this misunderstanding, I am satisfied with how we worked it out.
I also talked to the nurse about how I was feeling treated 'like a cancer patient" without regard to what was convenient for me. When I checked out, the chemo nurse asked what time I would like to come and I thanked her for asking. Then the other lady making my next appointment asked the same thing. I guess she heard the exchange! I thanked her too and said it really means a lot to just be asked "how is 9:00" rather than told "it's for 9:00". she said she hadn't thought of it that way before. So hopefully they really heard me and didn't just start gossiping about me when I left - LOL - but I don't really care, it just felt good to be asked for once!
I would like to think that you made them stop and think. I think they deal with so many patients they get numb to the fact they are dealing with real people with real lives. I think you should continue to remind them of that.
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